Sunday, August 12, 2012

Sunday Salute XX



Princess Diana (1961-1997)


I took a small television with me to the Lake so that I could get up in the middle of the night to watch the wedding of Diana Spencer and Prince Charles.  I have always loved the pomp and circumstance of the Royals and while I admire them I do not worship them.

I remember much of what went on which led up to the divorce and when she was killed I watched much of the television coverage.  I watched the outpouring of grief on behalf of people all over Great Britain and the world and thought.  "This is worship of a false idol.  Worship of a person and not deity. (I was into church in 1997.)  It made me uncomfortable but I was also fascinated.  

I remember seeing her two sons walking behind her coffin and feeling for them on the loss of their mother. For no matter what else anyone else says about Diana I believe she truly loved her boys and wanted the very best for them.  She did not "fit well" into the palace structure but went on to carve her own place after the separation and divorce.

Diana's charity work is what made her most appealing to me.  She worked with many charities but the two that touched me the most were her work with AIDS patients and the issue of landmines,  campaigning for a worldwide ban.  

She used her celebrity for good and in the end that was (and is) still the most important thing about her to me.

"She was one of the first very high profile people to be pictured touching those afflicted with AIDS this had a significant impact in changing people’s opinions and attitudes to the disease it was certainly a charity not following the protocol and tradition of the Royal family. AS Princess Diana said:
“HIV does not make people dangerous to know. You can shake their hands and give them hug heaven knows they need it"

I still admire her and I think her boys have developed into fine young men who are following in their mother's footsteps with their Charity Work. 
You can read more about Diana here.  She is one of the top 50 women who have changed the world.

Princess Diana Quotations:

• Being a princess isn't all it's cracked up to be.
• Don't call me an icon. I'm just a mother trying to help.
• Everyone needs to be valued. Everyone has the potential to give something 
back.
• I want to walk into a room, be it a hospital for the dying or a hospital for the 
sick children, and feel that I am needed. I want to do, not just to be.
• I think the biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the 
disease of people feeling unloved. I know that I can give love for a minute, for
 half an hour, for a day, for a month, but I can give. I am very happy to do that, I 
want to do that.
• HIV does not make people dangerous to know, so you can shake their hands
and give them a hug : Heaven knows they need it.
• I love to hold people's hands when I visit hospitals, even though they are 
shocked because they haven't experienced anything like it before, but to me it is
 a normal thing to do.
Previous Salutes
Harry S Truman   
John Shelby Spong  Nelson Mandella     Rachael Maddow   Matt Damon  
Jehan Sadat   Jane Goodall    Mohandas Gandhi  
 Eleanor Roosevelt    Lyndon B. Johnson      Michelle Obama
Helen Hayes   Marion Wright Edelman     Bishop Gene Robinson
Bishop Desmond Tutu       Rachel Carson          Helen Keller
Martin Luther King, Jr          Dalai Lama         Dag Hammarskjold

Comment

Paul Ryan is a devotee of Ayn Rand and her philosophy.  I remember reading her books when I was in college.  I read a lot of stuff in college.  "Rand called her philosophy "Objectivism", describing its essence as "the concept of man as a heroic being, with his own happiness as the moral purpose of his life, with productive achievement as his noblest activity, and reason as his only absolute" Source 

I had a visceral reaction to the philosophy.  I rejected it.  I couldn't tell you why but I knew instinctively that it was not correct.  I had seen and knew people who were selfless.  People who by their very nature did things for others "without the hope of fee or reward."  Oh sure there were plenty of folks who did things just so they could feel good about themselves but the vast majority of them just wanted to express Love by helping others. They did not go to bed at night being self congratulatory and thinking "aren't I a wonderful person because I helped someone today."  They went to be planning how they could do something more to help.

I often have visceral reactions to things.  I instinctively feel that something is right, or correct or good.  I read the Bible when I was younger and when I got to and through the book of John I instinctively felt the correctness of it. Just as I felt the incorrectness of Ms Rand's philosophy. And I feel that way about Paul Ryan and Mitt Romney.  They do not care about the average person.  They do fit with her philosophy in that the reason they do things is for self-aggrandizement.  I have a line I use about people who are a little too "puffed up" with their own self-importance.  I say "He is so impressed with himself I don't have to be impressed with him."  Rmoney and Ryan fit that definition.

Since I wrote this I found this comment by Lawrence O'Donnell.  It speaks volumes.

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Something for Saturday

 There was a time when I kept a carton of eggs in the refrigerator.  I usually got just a half carton as I live alone and didn't use them very fast.

I enjoy eating eggs,  if,  I say IF they are prepared a certain way.  And that way is over easy..  I like the runny yolk and I usually like them on toast or hashbrowns.

When I cooked more I used eggs in things. I liked to crack a couple of them and put them in meatloaf.  I don't know that it made any difference but I liked it.

Here is my meatloaf recipe from the Family Cookbook:
Jay's Meat Loaf
1½ lbs.    Ground Beef
1 10 oz.   Cream of Mushroom Soup
2 lg.         Eggs
1 pkg.      Pepperidge Farm Herb Seasoned Bread Crumbs
1T              Worcestershire Sauce
½ cup         Corn Flake Crumbs
1small can  Mushrooms (I like B & B brand)
                Kitchen Sink if you feel like it!
Procedure
1   Mix all ingredients in large mixing bowl.
2   Place in loaf pan.
3   Bake:  350°
( I always liked it that my Uncle Dave would eat this meatloaf and he didn't like meatloaf.  It was something I invented one day from things I just had in the kitchen.)

I also enjoy Eggs Benedict, Omelets, scrambled eggs, fried egg sandwiches and eggs in potato salad. Now I have purposely left off hard boiled eggs because I don't like them.  I am eating a lot of salads right now and get them pre-prepared from the store.  Several of them have hard boiled eggs on them and I used to take them off and toss them.   Lately I have been lazy and have just put an extra dollop of dressing on the egg and gulp it down.  I think mainly it is the texture I don't enjoy because I can eat them.. Oops, don't like deviled eggs either.


Mother used to put eggs on her pancakes. I always put syrup on mine.  She saved the syrup for the last pancake.  Since I developed diabetes I try to watch my sugar intake so now when I get pancakes or a waffle I often put my egg on them and then save the syrup for the last one.  I find that I enjoy it that way.  Who knew?

When I was a kid once in awhile we would get an egg that was fertilized and had started to produce a chicken.  We got our eggs from a farm near our place then.  That didn't appeal to me but I still like eggs.

My mother used to tell me the story about her sister and brother-in-law who were eating in a diner and ordered the eggs "over easy"  -  they came sunny side up and with a raw runny white where it should have been cooked.  My uncle sent them back. He could see the cook who got the plate turned the eggs over and sent them right back out. They went ahead and ate them.  But then they were much nicer that I would have been.

Friday, August 10, 2012

Found For Friday

 Fish cost a fortune

Two Virginia rednecks go on a fishing trip. They rent all the equipment - the reels, the rods, the wading suits, the rowboat, the car, and even a cabin in the woods. I mean they spend a fortune!

The first day they go fishing, but they don't catch anything. The same thing happens on the second day, and on the third day. It goes on like this until finally, on the last day of their vacation, one of the men catches a fish.

As they're driving home they're really depressed. One guy turns to the other and says, "Do you realise that this one lousy fish we caught cost us fifteen hundred bucks?"

The other guy says, "Wow! Then it's a good thing we didn't catch any more!"
 MODERN TECHNOLOGY

Coming to grips with the New Technology

I was visiting my son and daughter-in-law last night when I asked if I could borrow a newspaper.

"This is the 21st century, old man," he said. "We don't waste money on newspapers. Here, you can borrow my iPod."

I can tell you, that bloody fly never knew what hit it...

 At dinner, a little boy was forced to lead the family into prayer...
Little Boy : But I don't know how to pray
Dad: Just pray for your family members, friends and neighbors, the poor, etc.
Little Boy : "Dear Lord" he started "Thank you for our visitors and their children, who finished all my cookies and ice cream.

Bless them so they won't come again.
Forgive our neighbor's son, who removed my sister's clothes and wrestled with her on her bed.
This coming Christmas, please send clothes to all those poor naked ladies on my daddy's blackberry
and provide shelter for the homeless men who use mom's room when daddy is at work.......
AMEN "

Mom and Dad did not have dinner that evening......

 A toothless termite walked into a tavern and said, "Is the bar tender here?"



Bugs have very diverse religious views, because they are all in sects.

 People can't seem to agree on Global Warming because it's a polar icing issue.

 The Bureau of prisons just announced the release of a serial bank robber who had looted over 30 banks before his capture. 

The parole board says he is completely rehabilitated and has found employment at his home in Prague.

Yes, that is correct…
They were able to right a bad Czech

 When a cow gives birth she not only gives cream, she is de-calf-inated


Optometrists live long because they dilate.

 Once you’ve seen one shopping center, you’ve seen a mall.


Bakers trade bread recipes on a knead-to-know basis.

 A midget fortuneteller who escapes from prison is a small medium at large.


Those who get too big for their britches will be exposed in the end.



Enjoy your week-end!

Thursday, August 9, 2012

My Train Pictures

A couple of posts down you can see the pictures which Bob Kelley took of an historic train which passed through Ames.  As luck would have it I had just taken some train pictures myself.  I found myself at the head of a line of cars waiting for a train to pass the Duff Avenue Intersection.  I was looking at the railroad cars and the graffiti which seemed to be painted on all of them.  I really like these moving works of art.  And while the artists would probably be arrested for their work I admire their spirit and bravery for expressing themselves.



 I always have enjoyed looking at trains as they passed and remember the passenger trains which used to go through town and watching the people enjoying their rides to places unknown.  When I was little we used to meet my great-aunt Erma when she came to town for a visit.  I was fortunate in later years to ride coast to coast on the train.  First to Los Angeles to visit my aunt Ellen and then the next year with my classmates to Washington DC and New York City for our Senior Class Trip.

There were a lot of different types of cars on this train including some oil cars and many full of lumber.  I got to thinking about how important the railroad is and has been to our country.

 You can click on any of these pictures to embiggen them.  The intersection where I was sitting is right across from the place where the my family arrived in Ames. They arrived before the station was built.  It was not much of a station and was replaced with a large brick one on the other end of Main Street.  It is no longer there although the brick station where we met the passenger trains is still extant.

I have posted this somewhere in the past but to ask you to search through the 4,838 posts on this blog is a bit much so I am just going to reproduce the pertinent bits below.  It is the story of how my Cole ancestors arrived in Ames and the 1865 train journey taken by my great- great-grandfather's family.  Enjoy.  It was written by Uncle Henry.


In the winter of 1865, father and Alvin took a trip to Iowa; liking the central part, father bought 390 acres near Ames, after he bought 80 acres north of Nevada. He paid $4600.00 ($64,743.18 in 2010 money) for the 390 acres. (worth $2,223,000 today)
We lived stayed in the old house with the other family, but there was plenty of room. In early spring we began to get ready for the trip west.
We boxed most of the household goods, and took everything including the cook stove and barrel of pork.
Alvin and I (Henry) were selected to come with the car, which also contained the horses. I had seen railroad cars but never been on one and Alvin’s experience was the same. We were told the car would start from the junction on the west side. A switch engine was pulling some cars about, one of which was ours. We learned that when the train was made up a caboose would be would be attached in which we would ride, so we eased up a bit to wait, then watched the train pull out, sans way car and us.
A man told us the train was pulling out, when the rear and was not far past. We took a run for it. At first we gained and could almost touch the last car, then it became an even race and we buckled to it desperately. Then the train began to gain, and after a half mile or strenuous running we gave up, feeling decidedly foolish.
We took a passenger train which overtook the freight about half way to Toledo. There was still no caboose, so we rode the top of the car. It was April 17, (1865) and was cloudy, damp, and we rode for hours, through and extensive swamp, filled with water, vegetation, and chills and ague. We nearly perished, but no way to get out of it, so we rode to Toledo. There we got off the train we determined to keep our car in sight. When the switch engine whisked it away, we raced back and forth with it, among the thousands of cars in the yards. Finally it eluded us and a man who saw us frantically searching, told us to go to a lighted building where we would find a string of cabooses and we could get into the one whose number gave us, and go to sleep. As there was nothing else we could do, we did as he advised and when we woke up, we were in southern Michigan.
We had brought food and pails of water for the horses but we were to eat where the trainmen did. Our experiences made us wary of leaving our car, and we had nothing to eat for over twenty-four hours. The fare we got then was stinking steak and rotten eggs, but we were hungry.
In Chicago we changed from the M.S. + N.I. to the C + NW. Ry. At the Wells Street station we got the C + NW car, unloaded out goods and repacked them.

We had unloaded the horses in the yards and led them to a stable. Chicago at the time had no hard surfaced streets, at least where we were, some were planked, but we led our horses through miles and miles of mud like black tar. We were misdirected or misunderstood directions several times. We got comfortable bed and good meals at a hotel and next day we started on, and had a comfortable bed and good meals at a hotel next day we started on, and had a comfortable trip as far as DeKalb. Here we found one of the horses very sick and kicking things to pieces, so we had the car set out and got the horses unloaded. Although it was midnight, we found a Veterinarian who took the horses to his barn, and cared for them. We went to a hotel, and next day being Sunday, we were unable to leave until evening.
At Clinton we dipped water from the river for the horses. At Belle Plaine the caboose was a box car which was very uncomfortable; it had hard wooden seats and not enough of them. An emigrant family was added to our fellow travelers. An old lady wore the pants and had a gift for making known when she was abused, and the way she went for the car, the railroad company and it’s employees was both entertaining and satisfactory. So much so that the engineer of a push engine threatened to run his engine under the caboose and shove it from the track if she did not cease her tirade.
We got to Ames after 7 ½ days, arriving in the middle of the night. I jumped off the train and landed in water to my knees. There were few houses in the town, and we bunked on the floor at the home of the agent. Nothing since has tasted so good as the ham and eggs we had for breakfast. There was no depot at Ames, no platform where could unload. We borrowed some plank at the lumber yard, and made sort of a ramp and led the horses down and got the wagon off and put it together and were loading the household goods when my father came. He had come ahead of the train. A man standing by told Father not to load too heavily, or we might get sloughed. We, never having heard the term applied to mire, felt insulted as where we came from it meant getting drunk, we paid no heed to the advice. We started off, and coming to an innocent looking patch of moist ground, drove on unsuspecting. Soon both houses were down. We got them unhitched and extricated, but the state of the wagon seemed hopeless. Among the effects was a log chain, a long one. We led the horses far enough away to be sure of firm footing, and attached the chain to the end of the wagon tongue. The horses were large and strong, so succeeded in pulling the wagon out. Without any more trouble, we reached our new home, a two story log house on a bluff overlooking the Skunk River.
I had one place pictured in my mind, but it did not resemble what we found. There was a family of five still living in the house, and they continued to live there until mid-summer.
Mr. Riddle, from whom we bought the land, was confined to the house in the last stages of consumption, and a girl about 24 died in the house a few days after we arrived.
A week later the rest of the family arrived, and the house was crowded. There were Father, Mother, Alvin and his wife and Alice, Aliva, John, myself (Henry), Arthur, William, and Julia. Mary, Susan, and Laura were married and living in Cleveland.
The house was in the timber. We had 200 acres of it, mostly hardwood, oak, and hickory. We could have bought land on the prairie for half as much, but no one lived on the prairie; although that would have been a better investment at the same price as timber. There was no income from the timber, except the scanty pasture, and what we needed for fuel.
There was 75 acres in cultivation and we proceeded to plant corn with a hoe as we had in Ohio. We had a fair crop.


Trains have always been important in our country.  It is unfortunate that we must be in such a hurry so that we have to fly everywhere. If we had put as much effort into repairing and replacing and rebuilding our train infrastructure we might have less pollution and global warming.



Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Additional Photos by Bob Kelley

Additional photos have been added to the Train Photos by Bob Kelley.  Click Here or scroll down to see them.